i'm a HUGE fan of botdf.. and I love dahvie and jayy with all of my heart.... soon im going to one of their concerts.. it would be the first concert ive ever been to.. and I want to meet them... and im planning on it... but reading all of this scares the hell out of me.. my whole life ive been terrified of rape... but I don't believe he does it anymore!!! it was a long time ago! should I not go to the concert? HELP...
Oh my. This is quite the ask.
I don’t think you have to be afraid that he is going to overpower you in any way. His M.O. seems to be groping and coming onto teens. He is accused of a lot of statutory rape, not so much the overtly forceful type.
But ummm, “I don’t believe he does it anymore. It was a long time ago.”
Yikes. I think you need to sit down and talk with your parents about what type of band this is and let them make the decision for you because you clearly need some advice and guidance that I am not the best person to give.